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If you’re struggling with self-doubt, self-sabotage, procrastination, holding yourself back, here's why...
The real problem isn’t lack of confidence — it’s the shaky foundations beneath it.
Until your self-worth, self-esteem, self-belief, and self-confidence are all strong, your progress will always feel unsteady, no matter how many affirmations you repeat.
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"I have now been listening to the audios every morning and have noticed a real shift. I love the layers and the diamond - very powerful!" Kathy J, Counsellor, UK
Let me tell you something that completely changed the way I work with people…
For years, I believed confidence came from one thing: telling yourself “I am enough.”
But no matter how often you say it, if the deeper foundations aren’t in place, progress will always feel shaky.
One day I realised…
“It’s not just about the words you say to yourself - it’s about strengthening the layers those words rest on."
When I began helping clients heal and build all four layers together, everything shifted.
Confidence stopped being something they had to “switch on” — and started becoming the natural state they lived from.
And now… it’s your turn.
"When your inner foundation is strong, you don’t have to force confidence, it flows naturally."
From the Desk of
Andrew Parr
Author, Speaker, Personal Development Specialist
I remember the moment so clearly.
14 strangers. Thousands of pounds on the line. And I stood there... frozen.
Smiling on the outside. Dying inside.
My first training course and my inner voice is on fire.
“They hate you.”
“They’ll be disappointed.”
“They’ll want a refund.”
“You’re not good enough.”
“They’ll see through you.”
“You’re a fake. A fraud. Useless.”
Not exactly ideal when you’re about to teach 120 hours of training.
And yet… they loved every minute.
The problem wasn’t my ability.
It was my inner foundations.
I was missing key layers, a deep sense of self-worth, the self-esteem to feel comfortable in my own skin, the self-belief to trust my ability, and the self-confidence to show up fully.
Without those, everything felt shaky.
And this showed up everywhere:
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I was good at my work… but uncomfortable asking for payment.
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People liked me… but I’d hold back or turn down invitations.
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I felt insecure about my appearance… so I’d obsess over the smallest details.
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I couldn’t make decisions… because being wrong felt catastrophic.
And I missed out — on friendships, opportunities, joy.
The cost of weak foundations?
Missed opportunities, strained relationships, constant anxiety.
The hidden ways low confidence quietly shapes our lives ...
🪞 Appearance & Personal Care ...
Eating poorly, not looking after yourself, prioritising yourself last
Avoiding mirrors or photos, over-concern for your appearance, or letting go of care entirely
Sacrificing your own needs for the sake of others
❤️ Relationships ...
Staying in relationships that hurt
Clinging to people for validation
Avoiding intimacy or love
💰 Money & Career
Undercharging, under-earning, or not asking for raises
Procrastinating on dreams or goals
Sabotaging success
💭 Deeper Inner Landscape
Feeling guilty for resting or taking time for yourself
Constant self-monitoring and people-pleasing
Shame around even wanting more
Does any of this feel familiar?
I used to tick so many of those boxes ...
But that was then.
Now?
I’ve led over 20,000 client sessions, trained hundreds of professionals and been guest speaker on numerous podcasts and conventions.
I still remember that voice.
But it doesn’t run the show anymore.
Here's what else changed. I began:
Prioritising time for my own personal care and wellbeing.
Feeling more confident in my appearance
Acknowledging my rights in relationships
Being able to set boundaries and speak up when needed
Charging appropriate fees for the services I provide
Able to act on dreams or goals
Allowing success to come naturally
Resting, relaxing and taking timeout and feeling good doing so
Allowing myself to be fully seen, knowing that I am enough
Recognising that my desires are valid and I am allowed to thrive too
And so much more ...
And I didn’t get there through mind hacks, motivational tricks, or trying to "act confident."
I got there by discovering something deeper:
If you want to feel calm, confident and free in any situation — you need to build confidence the right way — from the inside out.
That’s when I discovered something I now call:
The Four Layers of Real Confidence:
1️⃣ Self-Worth — the foundation most people skip entirely
2️⃣ Self-Esteem — recognising your qualities and contributions
3️⃣ Self-Belief — the quiet trust that says “I can do this”
4️⃣ Self-Confidence — the natural result of integrating all three
“When these layers are in place, and in the right order, you no longer have to perform confidence.
You simply are confident."
That’s why I created a clear, practical path — something that guides you layer by layer, pillar by pillar, helping you rebuild from the inside out…
Introducing "The Real Confidence Formula™"
The 4-Part Guided Script & Audio Programme that strengthens all four layers of confidence — starting with self-worth — so you feel grounded, unshakable, and free to be yourself in any situation.
So these are the four layers:
Now you can build the calm, unshakable confidence to say, "I couldn't... but now I can!" in any area of life.
Hear from others who've already experienced the shift
"The script has been so powerful - I've been really able to feel a difference in my thoughts as a result."
Ivana B, Therapist, UK
"I love the layers and the diamond - very powerful!"
Kathy J, Counsellor, UK
"This audio touched something deeper than thought."
Ginta E. Professional Hypnotherapist, UK
"Better than affirmations for me. You’ve made it genuine and lasting."
Julie R., Professional, UK
"I have listened to hypnosis recordings before but they had no impact. Yours impressed me from the very first moment."
Mo, UK
The heart of the system is 4 step-by-step modules... each one unlocking a key layer of lasting confidence.
Inside The RCF Method™, you’ll follow my complete confidence-building process in crystal-clear, easy-to-follow steps.
Each module focuses on a single, essential layer — moving from self-worth to self-confidence — so the changes you make feel natural and last for life.
Your complete guided system - audios, scripts, and workbook - all instantly accessible.
Here's exactly what you'll receive:
🎧 4 Guided Audio Sessions
Professionally recorded audios that gently rewire your thinking — in the correct order, to correct a mistake most people make.
📖 4 x Full Length Scripts (Download)
Each audio also comes as a full written script — for deep reinforcement, journaling, or quiet reflection.
📝 4-Part Companion Workbook (Download)
To help you apply and live the teachings — step by step — day by day.
This is a confidence building system that works from the inside out
Not mindset hacks.
Not fake-it-‘til-you-make-it.
But real, layered, lasting change.
You'll finally be able to:
Eliminate self-doubt, self-sabotage and procrastination, so you can take action without second-guessing.
Build genuine self-worth and value into your relationships, work, and everyday choices.
Speak and express yourself with ease, feeling comfortable in your own voice.
Trust yourself to show up, step forward, and thrive in any situation.
Stay calm, grounded, and quietly unshakable - even when life gets complicated
You'll also get these 3 powerful bonus tools
- previously sold as standalone products
Bonus #1: My Terrifying Tomorrows (E-Book & Audio Book)
A practical, step-by-step guide to transform anxiety about the future into calm, clarity, and peace of mind.
Bonus #2: 7 Insider Secrets That Will Revolutionize How You Start Your day
Read by me — so you can listen anytime, reset your focus, and realign with your true self wherever you are.
Bonus #3: The Point of Power Blueprint
A simple, powerful guide to staying grounded in the present moment — what I call “mindfulness on steroids.”
Together, these bonuses amplify everything you’ll learn in The Real Confidence Formula™, giving you extra tools to shift your thinking, steady your emotions, and move forward with confidence.
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Why This Is Different
I usually work 1-to-1 with clients at $1500 / £1250 per session, helping them resolve the deep issues most people struggle to shift.
But here’s the thing:
Not everyone needs a full session to experience a breakthrough.
This programme gives you the exact same transformation framework I use with private clients — for a fraction of the cost.
It’s designed to feel personal… yet accessible.
Deep… yet doable.
And quietly transformational.
That’s why this isn’t just another course - it’s a shortcut to results that normally cost thousands.
What Others Say After Working With Me
"I am a transformed public speaker!"
- Bert, London
"The overwhelming gloom and depression I’ve been battling for a few weeks has totally lifted today.
- David, UK
"Little by little all the pain and the fear slowly faded away."
- Kaitlin, UK.
"6 out of 6 for confidence from the trainers!"
- SM, I.T. Specialist in London
"He helped me to totally rediscover my sense of self - and the gift of life."
- Matt, Oxford, UK.
“When you feel self-worth, self-esteem and self-belief deep down, confidence becomes your natural state."
Questions
Now’s the Time to Transform Your Confidence Yes! I’m Ready To Transform My Confidence & My Life With The Real Confidence Formula™
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Your 100% Confidence Guarantee
I want this to feel completely risk-free for you.
Take your time with this. Listen to the audios, work through the scripts, and explore the bonus tools at your own pace.
If at any point within 60 days you feel it’s not helping you, I’ll refund your payment in full — no questions asked.
You’ve got nothing to lose, and a lifetime of a stronger, steadier confidence to gain.
✅ 4 Deeply Guided Audios to shift how you think and feel
✅ 4 Scripts + 4-Part Workbook to guide your breakthroughs
✅ 3 Powerful Bonus Tools (Worth £97+) to accelerate your results
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